Basis , n
"There has to be a moment in the beginning when you wonder whether you’re in love with the person or in love with the feeling of love itself."
What about being in love with the idea of feeling love/ having love / sharing mutual love with someone else ? Talking to Ms.C I realized how we usually create ideas of what we want , and I realized how I forcefully try and convince myself that IT is what I want . I, like many others, make myself believe that …that one person has all the qualities you yearn to find in your significant other . But eventually with time , you realize you forced a puzzle piece in and the whole picture isn’t really how you imagined it to be. Even if I never find a good piece to my puzzle … I know I shouldn’t force others to “fit” .